Thursday, 30 April 2015

Recognizing the Seasons...

Have you ever seen a month old baby walking unaided on his feet? I bet your answer is in line with mine: NO. A new born don't just start taking his first steps a couple of months after he was born, there are phases he must pass through before he can take his first shaky steps, he first learn how to crawl, sit, walk and maybe then he can learn to run. In the same vain I feel as humans, there are some phases/patterns we all have to go through in life, I grouped these phases into learning/working, earning and returning..

Wednesday, 29 April 2015

The Juggler

Hiya lovelieees! Top of the day to you all, so how is the week going? It's been cool for me as the week rolls by.. so wanna ask when did women turn jugglers? Especially for the working mum who juggles between work, kids and keeping the home. 

Tuesday, 28 April 2015

What colour represents you?

You know how they say show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.. this time around it's show me your colour and I will tell you who you are..hehe.

You know what colour represents me? It's black, I love black coloured clothes, black men *biko am not a racist*, black shoes, bags, you just name it. But you know how they also say the colour black represents evil or mourning or unhappiness. *sighs* my family have been killing my dream of black nation. Mummy nearly go in tears each time she sees me in all black outfit, she goes all black is not a good colour, don't you know someone meeting you for the first time will think you are mourning. Sometimes when I finally agree to off one or all of the black outfits I find out I normally am not much happy about it but have to do it anyway to make my mummy happy (one person I would gladly or grudgingly displease my self for before marriage is my mother). The thing is I feel more comfortable in black knowing it does not draw much attention from people (men) to myself.
Last Sunday's outfit, cropped my face off the parting on my weaves kind of rough and the yabbings from my sisters is more than enough, wouldn't want more from you guys
Not that I don't like bright colours but I really do feel most comfortable wearing black outfit (especially a complete black outfit). Sometimes I look for a little trouble by wearing it on a Friday. All those over sabi folks that will make to ask me silly questions wouldn't dare when they see the look on my face..lolz.

So tell me what colour represents you and why do you like it?

Remember God gave you the bricks to work on, you just make it mould and He will work on seeing it dry and coming out in good shape. Work your dreams to life!

Monday, 27 April 2015

Who loves this fruit like me?..

Hiya guys! So how are you all doing? I thank God I 've finally made it back home from my last of many journeys. No more travels for now... 

Why do the hinter villages have fruits and even foods more than the urban areas? On my way back I saw quite a variety of fruits been displayed by the women in the locals. And me I love 'sucking' mango die, who knows and love sucking mango like me in the house?. Too bad I had already finished licking it before I thought to snap. Mehn the aroma of that mango is just too appealing to the nostrils, I doubt there will be anyone who does not like that fruit *sorry there must be, not everyone knows a good fruit* in Nigeria. You know what fam.. I think the aroma/scent from that fruit could be extracted to make some nice perfumes, what do you think? *my Igbo brothers please take note* hehe.

 Guess what??? Today is the wedding anniversary of our amiable reader Jummy Jenmi (Mrs). Most of you should likely know her here. She is a regular commenter, she is been there for me right from the start. This goes to wishing her a Happy Marriage Anniversary. I pray God grant you and your hubby all your heart desires ( children (up to 12), good health, happiness, peace, wealth, long life, prosperity and more) . You shall celebrate many more anniversaries with good health and happiness in the years to come.. Appreciate to have met a friend like you, thanks so much for your kind encouragements... Bon Anniversarie! 
P.S: Jummy dear please send me your preferred network to my email address so I can send you a top up to call family and friends on your anniversary. 

Okay stay safe lovelies, do have a nice day! 

Sunday, 26 April 2015

Thanksgiving Sunday

Yeah!!! We made it to another new week again, it's not easy. All thanks to God Almighty for His unending Grace and Mercy even when we don't deserve it. That's why he is called Faithful God! I just want to thank God for adding another year to my YEARS. I know he has a reason for bringing me this far and it must be fulfilled in my life. So it's Thanksgiving Sunday, join me to give thanks and praises to God. He is worthy of our praises!

Who went to church today?...Me!!! And I hope you did too, stay blessed and have a fruitful week ahead.


Saturday, 25 April 2015

Fishbrain: Some girls wanna make me believe it

Hello darls, how are you all doing? Me am doing good in case you want to know how I am faring? Anyways thanks to this sunny Saturday my clothes I washed are all dried out and still no thanks to the day, everywhere is so hot to the point that 'm sweating all over *don't roll your small eyes at me, I hardly sweat just started to feel heat sef for the first time some few months ago since I was born*. This global warming thing is getting worse by the day *dunno*
So I just wanted to drop in and say hi to you guys. My sweet poRatoes. I hope your weekend is going as planned maybe peaceful, fun filled or house chore filled. Erm *scratches eyes* I want to do small amebo before I sign out. Abeg how is it possible for a girl to know her guy is cheating on her and still stay in that relationship?

Friday, 24 April 2015

Deja vu: When feelings roll out in exact manners like you have felt before...

According to The Urban dictionary, deja vu (French word) meaning 'already seen' is the feeling that you are doing something that you've already done before. Have you ever had a feeling you are doing something you have already done before, Hmmn yes we all do repeat or say something we have probably done before like say 'hiya fam' or 'how are you doing today', 

Like I always feel I am sitting on this sofa when in reality I am seated on my mum's hard stool at home. 
But you know what clan, deja vu is different, if not because you know you really have not done or said something you are saying or doing that moment you would have thought otherwise... Deja vu is nothing more than a feeling clan even though the actions or words seems to repeat out in the same manner. 

Thursday, 23 April 2015

Rants and Thank You(s)...

After all my plans for my special day it came out in a beautiful way. I can't believe I spent a huge portion of my birthday on the road, good 14 hours for a journey to and fro. Am so 'bus lagged' (will make do with that until I can fly aeroplane and become jetlagged) .

Okay this is kind of a thank you post. A reader of my other blog went out of his way to make my birthday more beautiful than I had imagined even though we have never met . A big thank you to him especially for the birthday song and gift *blushing*. The guy's voice was as honey and butter inspired like Amaka's. And to everyone that wish me a happy birthday, Calabar girl, Amaka and Jummy and not leaving out Molola *wink*. I deeply appreciate. And to my beautiful clan behind the hundreds of page views even though most of you don't make your presence felt by leaving a comment I still appreciate you and encourage you to keep visiting.

Wednesday, 22 April 2015

Happy birthday to Me!!!

Beautiful king
Awesome God
The One that made the wise foolish for my sake
And the strong feeble

Men can't understand the Hand  
That seems to move the clouds for me
Men stand in awe of your wonders in my life 
By merit nor strength did I get here

You have never let my weeping last more than a night 
Your mercies and love have been new every morning 
Now and forever I choose to serve you
I pray all men see your Light.

Warm Birthday shout out to Lohla of Lohla's melange. Happy birthday to you and me. April born rocks! I pray God bless our new age.



Tuesday, 21 April 2015

Look before you say 'I do!'

Hiya fam! How is the weekend going? Smooth I guess. I made a vow to my self not to touch on this topic when I was making plans for the blog during my pioneer days, simply because I wasn't married yet. *smiles* But guess what? I am not in any way in a marriage or any thing close to it but I know a few knacks about it and its recipes...*chuckles*.

Monday, 20 April 2015

Every Moment on Capture... Click!

Photos capture memorable moments and keeps them alive in our hearts each time we take a look at them. 
If you were to rummage through my phone now, you will be amazed at the number of photos you will find on my camera photos and today I went through practically every photo on my phone numbering into a few thousands, I would look at one of the photos sometimes for a couple of minutes and some I gave just a moment glance. You may ask: Don't you have anything better to do?. I do... but I wanted to find out something, and that is the reason why I took each and every one of those photographs. I found out something after looking through the whole folders of photos, some I had reasons for why I made the decision to capture that moment and others no reason whatsoever, maybe there is a reason and my brain wouldn't bring it self to find it.

Sunday, 19 April 2015

Thanksgiving Sunday

Hope you are as happy as I am for another opportunity to thank God and let the whole world know He is the Dopest, the best Friend, the Greatest Protector(He is stronger than a thousand army) and above all a Merciful King!
It's another RellaNaija Thanksgiving Sunday... Here we come together to thank God for what He has done this past week, today and what He is yet to do. So if you are not joining this beautiful clan to thank Baba God, just know you are standing on a short thing...LOL.

Saturday, 18 April 2015

Perculiar observations about some Naija cities

 I have been opportuned to visit some states in Nigeria and I want to share some peculiar observations (not facts ooh)about the people. Please note all findings are based on my observations when I visited, so am sorry if it may contradict with your view especially if you hail from that state and please I don't mean to be insulting or tribalistic about any tribe or people.
So here it goes.....

Friday, 17 April 2015

Make the mind a better WORKSTATION!

Hiya fam!!! Am back again.... dudun** dudun** dudun** dudunnnnn.....with the busy body eeh... everybody eeh... something dey..... yeah this is the breakdown!!!...LOL
Guess what fam? I have not been able to open blogger for the past two  days *bbm sad face*. In my one sided mind, I thought it was the bad network though I could open any other site. At times when blogger miraculously opens, I click on write post and it doesn't respond, just showing blank page for days. Then something happened, I just got home the past hour and was excited to come online with the super fast connectivity here, lo and behold the same blank page that shows up each time I click new post. I was so alarmed and my joy was temporarily lost thinking my browser or phone was having some kinda fault.

Wednesday, 15 April 2015

And off I go...

Good day Mr Moderator, Impartial panel of Judges, Co- debators, accurate time keeper and my readers at home.... hehe. This so reminds me of primary school and the inter debates between neighbouring schools. I would cram page after page of fullscap(that's how Molola spelt it for me) sheet even though I never knew the meaning of those extra large vocabulary my teacher included in the text.
I am touring virtually every Town in Delta State, touring I came to do something serious ooh, who dash me 'touor'. See the kind of suffer I am going through here ehn is not cool at all ooh, how can a oversabi sorry smart phone be indicating 3G full network and I can barely open not to talk of

Monday, 13 April 2015

See Gobe work....LOL

Heello! Top of the hour to you all.... I hope your day has been productive like mine...hehe.
So I can't remember ever doing what I did today but am so proud of my self and I know mama will be so happy when she returns, too bad I won't be around when she will arrive home so I can form hardworking daughter... lol. Am on my way to the Finger of God state *decipher that* to pick up some stuffs.

Sunday, 12 April 2015

Thanksgiving Sunday!

Hello my people! How una dey?...... this is to wishing you all a happy 'post Easter Sunday' #ehugz#

Saturday, 11 April 2015

The Fear Factor

Hello my beautiful fam! How is your 'stuck' Saturday going? Please do go and cast your vote if you have your PVC at hand.
Some thoughts have held my heart since last night and I couldn't think of anything else as I lay on my flat mattress.
Why do I feel something is wrong around the corner? Please don't call me spoilt, I just want to share something I have been observing.

Friday, 10 April 2015

Fear of the unknown processes

Hiya fam! How are you all doing? How is the family, mumsy, daddy, hubby, children doing,,, Great I guess.
This blog is beginning to turn personal ooh, everyday me me me! But it is all cool jhoor, it being personal (mine and yours) means we can relate more abi?

Thursday, 9 April 2015

We just might see ourselves up there anytime... what will you CHANGE?

Well you never can tell, our grandpas in the top government might just really help make this word 'the youths are the leaders of tomorrow' become visualised pretty soon. God willing, some of our leaders who have turned the House of Assembly and other positions to an enthronement could decide to take a rest from their political enthronement to pave way for the youths.

Wednesday, 8 April 2015

That special 'thing' that makes you feel alright!

Just wanna let you all know am happy *shines teeth* and I hope you are too. Sorry for the introduction, but that's how I feel, thank you! * shines whiter teeth*

My fav piece.

Tuesday, 7 April 2015

Making that DECISION

Let me rate my self on a scale of one to ten on my ability to make choices (right ones) some few years back in the twinkle of an eye: 2. Yes two, or continue reading and rate me yourself maybe you will raise it higher by a few notch.

Monday, 6 April 2015

Are you a keeper or flinger?

Hiya guys, how was the Easter celebration in your home? How did the chicken taste. I feel for all the chickens and rams that had to go for Easter stew and rice. Sad!...

Sunday, 5 April 2015

Thanksgiving Sunday!

#singing# Come and see what the Lord has done for me *3
If it were to be man I will truly pay...
Yes ooh, what the Lord God has done for me can run into zillions of dollar where it to be pay as you go but it's all free!.

Saturday, 4 April 2015

Ladies Love Looking Good!

Yeeee! Sorry for this mega late post time, please pardon me, see if you even see what I have been doing since morning ehn, you will tell me to go take a long rest and just forget about writing this post. Well even if you tell me not to write I will jejely decline 'cos I must drop something here for you guys each day.

Friday, 3 April 2015

Make PERFECT happen!

Hello guys! How are you all doing? Me am fine *shines 32* 'M freaking happy, don't even know why, maybe I do or maybe I don't...bottom line: Rizzy is happy and I hope you are too.

Thursday, 2 April 2015

How things have changed...

I remember how I used to wake up early and have this sense of pride when ever I beat NTA to their first image/broadcast (multicoloured screen) for some few minutes and the subsequent instrumental humming of the national anthem.

Wednesday, 1 April 2015


Yeah We made it, I made it, you made it. We made it to the second quarter of the year and for me it is an honour to see this day and month.